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I would say that less than 10% of the people I write to write back to me. I write to all kinds of men who are both younger and older, of all races,single and divorced, etc, etc.and I’ve been very, very careful to use all of your tips, and I read your blog faithfully. I feel like I’m the ONE outlier who can’t make your tips work for me.In one week I had sent out 52 emails to 52 different girls. So I gathered that most women like tall men who make a lot of money. Oh, and 5’5″ doesn’t exactly look a lot like 6’0″ even if you’re wearing sexy pumps that you just bought from Neiman Marcus. I assumed that I was unworthy, being the halfling that I am. I think you’re the most adorable thing in the entire world.” I stand there beaming from ear to ear. As I’m developing a height complex I realize that I have to be honest on my dating profile. I list that I’m 5’5″ and that I make about .00 a year. But seriously, online dating is the only place where passive aggressive women can flourish. Actual typical Friday night: Out on a date with a girl I don’t like wondering about the girl who I did like that stopped talking to me after I mentioned, in an email, that I was a recovering carrier of chlamydia. Lesson #15: Horny is not becoming on you when you don’t wear any pants to a second date.Okay, I lied, 10 of them were to the same girl, so shoot me. You know the ones, the white and black zebra-striped ones with the stiletto heel? So I’m standing there at the bar wearing a threadbare shirt, drinking an appletini with not one, but two umbrellas, wearing six inch stiletto heels. Is it just me or does telling somebody you’re not into them, over the goddamned internet, not take a lot of energy? Lesson #16: You can’t blame your boner on the pleats of your pants if you’re not wearing any pants. But goddamn it if I don’t dress up in my six inch zebra-striped stiletto heels and make myself an appletini every friday night pretending the blow-up doll I have dressed up like a girl I once knew from an online dating site was actually a girl I met on an online dating site. If you’re writing to men who state that they’re looking for women 24-32, you can’t be too surprised that they’re not writing back. According to the aforementioned blog post, the average woman will get a 30% response rate from the most attractive men.
So now, if I don’t receive a reply to my email within fifteen minutes I get to thinking that she’s just not into me. Unlike most of the lookie-loos who read free blogs and newsletters and don’t try anything different, you put your money where your mouth is and invested in Finding the One Online. However, there are a few variables that might be affecting your experience…and I’d just like to point them out to you. In this famous Ok Cupid blog post, Ok Cupid takes great pains to illustrate that while women think that 80% of men are BELOW AVERAGE in attractiveness, men actually have a fair appraisal of women’s attractiveness.And now you want to know when the payoff is going to come. Since I don’t know you at all, I’m just going to be objective and theorize why you might not be doing as well as you’d like. And while they still write disproportionately to the best looking 33% of women, normal women still get plenty of attention online.And that’s exactly what I was beginning to end up as: a herpes-infested neanderthal. I found someone who is, quite simply, the only reason I am on this Earth.Every day she instills me with a hope that I am not an alien from another planet.